Do You Love Me?
Reflections on the Baptism of Christ
RCL Baptism of Christ C
12 January 2025
Church of the Epiphany
Surrey BC
As I was preparing for today’s sermon, I had an idea for a book title – The Gospel according to Broadway. When I was growing up, Broadway musicals were a regular feature of the music life of my family. Paula and I brought a shared loved of musicals into our own family life. Just get our three children together and, with the right incentive, you’ll get a performance of Cats or A Muppets’ Christmas Carol staged right in front of you.
One of my favourite musicals is The Fiddler on the Roof. It tells the story of Anatevka, a Jewish village in Czarist Russia before the upheavals of World War I and the Communist Revolution of 1917. Despite its setting, the themes of the musical touch on things that are not so foreign to us:
· religious persecution of minorities,
· ethnic cleansing,
· political repression and violence,
· social and economic inequality,
· the tension between tradition and modernity.
Early in the musical Tevya, the lead character, a poor, hard-working milkman, struggles with his eldest daughter’s refusal to agree to the marriage he has arranged with one of the wealthiest men in the village, the local butcher. She loves a poor but enterprising tailor whom she has known since childhood, and, in a rejection of tradition, they have pledged themselves to each other.
Tevya doesn’t understand this. His own marriage was arranged by his parents and his wife’s parents twenty-five years ago. For twenty-five years they have had children together, struggled to make a life for themselves, met the expectations of their community. Love played no part in the matter.
Faced with his daughter’s refusal and the potential scandal it will cause, Tevya is at a loss. He turns to his wife and asks her, ‘Do you love me?’ She is as startled by the question as Tevya. She responds by giving a summary of all that she has done for him, all that she has suffered for him, all that people of expected of her as a wife and mother. But, by the end of the duet, she and Tevya agree that they do love one another. They sing, ‘It doesn’t change a thing, but after twenty-five years, it’s nice to know.’
Every human being needs to hear the words, ‘I love you’, spoken by someone who knows us as we are, who knows our strengths and our weaknesses, who cares for our very being. We want to hear the words spoken by someone who is actively seeking to nurture us so that we can become who we are truly meant to be and who is willing to speak hard truths to us when we need to hear the truth.
Without such an affirmation it is difficult, if not downright impossible, to navigate the rapids of the river of life. If we do not know that we are loved, we may lose the incentive to venture into paths unknown and choose to remain firmly in ‘the straight and narrow’ of the status quo. If we do not know that we are loved, it is not easy to love anyone else. The writer of 1 John writes to his community, “God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them. . . . There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love. We love because [God] first loved us.” (1 John 4.16b, 18-19 NRSVue)
Even Jesus needs this affirmation. As I read today’s gospel, I was struck by a simple observation. When Jesus shows up and joins the crowd coming to be baptized by his cousin John for the forgiveness of sin, Jesus hasn’t actually done anything significant. It’s true that in Luke’s gospel we learn about several episodes in his childhood, but Jesus hasn’t done anything noteworthy. But here, at the river, God speaks these words, “You are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well pleased.” (Luke 3.22b)
With this affirmation Jesus embarks on his three-year mission that will transform the world forever. With this affirmation Jesus faces the testing in the desert and emerges victorious. With this affirmation Jesus proclaims God’s kingdom to sympathetic and unsympathetic crowds from north to south, from west to east. With this affirmation Jesus faces that lonely night in the garden and chooses to follow the path that will lead to his trial, condemnation and execution.
My friends, I think that there are many people in the world today, some of whom are even members of the Church, who do not believe that God loves us. I cannot deny that there are many reasons why it is difficult to believe this – wars, injustice, poverty, inequality – the list of obstacles to belief in God’s love is lengthy. And so we go about ‘looking for love in all the wrong places’ [1] We look for love in the ownership of possessions, in the search for power of one form or another, for physical gratification – a list at least as long as the list of obstacles to belief in God’ love for us. But what we’re all looking for is to be found in the life and teaching of Jesus of Nazareth.
What Jesus has taught us is that knowing we are love empowers us to build life-giving communities that are unafraid to confront the powers that deny the dignity and full humanity of every child of God. What Jesus has taught us is that knowing we are loved empowers us to love our neighbours as we love ourselves regardless of where they come from, when they became our neighbours or which faith they profess. What Jesus has taught us is that knowing we are loved empowers us to take responsibility for our failures as well as our successes and to live a life of gratitude that safeguards the integrity of God’s creation and works to respect, sustain and renew the life of ‘this fragile earth, our island home’.
We begin this civil new year of 2025 with a variety of emotions, concerns and uncertainties. Some of these are the product of political and economic forces at work in Canada and beyond. Others are the natural emotions that accompany times of transition and change. All can become overwhelming and lead us to be motivated by our fears rather than our hopes and values. But on this day when we remember the baptism of Christ in the river Jordan, we receive the antidote to such fears and to believing that we are powerless to act. It’s an antidote that like flu and COVID vaccines we need to receive more than once. The antidote God offers us is the same that he offered to Jesus when he joined the crowd and walked into the water: ‘People of the Church of the Epiphany, people everywhere, you are my children, the Beloved; in you I am well pleased. Let my perfect love cast away any fear that may seek to take hold of you. I am with you until the ending of the worlds.’
[1] ‘Looking for Love’ is a song written by Wanda Mallette, Bob Morrison and Patti Ryan. It was released in June 1980 and recorded by Johnny Lee. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lookin%27_for_Love#:~:text=%22Lookin'%20for%20Love%22%20is,Urban%20Cowboy%2C%20released%20that%20yearaccessed on 11 January 2025.